How to be a Christian (in no particular order):
- Don’t work or sleep in on Sundays – go to church instead
- Don’t wear revealing clothing… ‘cause Modest is Hottest!
- Don’t sleep around
- Don’t curse or use foul language (they’re the same thing right?)
- Don’t get wasted or do drugs
Those sound about right, right? We’re always told what we’re not supposed to be doing because we’re Christians. Because we said a prayer when we were 5 in Sunday School or 15 at church camp, etc. etc.
But what’s the list of DO’s? Basically, I’m saying this:
Let’s try to be known for what we DO, not for what we don’t do. Or rather, not JUST what we don’t do.
I mentioned this to Kirk the other night. During college, I was known as the girl who didn’t. I was the girl who didn’t hook up with the hot guys in our class (who am I kidding there weren’t any), who didn’t drink or party, who didn’t curse (at least not in front of anyone), who didn’t cheat or engage in the overwhelming PRSSA gossip, blah blah blah.
Basically, I was known for everything I didn’t do. And that’s easy. However, it’s much harder to DO things that go against the status quo than just avoid the bad things.
Be known for what you do, not for what you don’t do
I first heard that phrase when talking to Alex and Brett Harris, co-authors of Do Hard Things. Remember I Kissed Dating Goodbye? The guy who penned that lovely manual is their older brother. I talked to the twins right before Do Hard Things released a few years back. They spent a good part of our interview talking about their mission to start a “rebelution” and encourage students to do hard things…not just avoid the bad things.
It stuck with me ever since.
I forgot about it for a while, but in the past few weeks it’s be in the forefront of my mind. I’m out here in Nashville hanging out with friends, working at a non-religious nonprofit, doing side work for artists and just living my own life. But how do I do all of those things in a way that reflects Christ? We were created to glorify God. I’ve known this since I was old enough to talk. But now, I’m not really sure how to put that into practice.
This is where “How to be a Christian 101” starts to get sticky.
So let’s evaluate this list again.
- Don’t work or sleep in on Sundays – go to church instead
(go to church on Sunday, but still make time to hang out with God Monday through Saturday) - Don’t wear revealing clothing… ‘cause Modest is Hottest!
( well, I can’t think of a “do” for this one) - Don’t sleep around
(but just because you’re not doing IT, doesn’t mean you can do everything else. Stay pure.) - Don’t curse or use foul language (they’re the same thing right?)
(how about we use our conversation to encourage people?) - Don’t get wasted or do drugs
(yeah, but don’t sit around and do something else unproductive or destructive either. Use your time and money wisely. Help someone.)
I hope this doesn’t come off as judgmental. I screw up absolutely all the time. I focus on the “don’ts” more than the “do’s” every day…and I do a lot of the don’ts..a lot of the time. Sheesh, this is like a tongue twister.
Today, I went to church out in Chattanooga. It was awesome. Sidenote: Everyone should go to Chattanooga, because you can see things like this:
Anyways…the pastor was a large black man from Miami who spoke with such inflection that I thought he was going to burst into tears at any moment. He spoke on the importance of witnessing. He told a story about how he witnessed to one guy in college and in turn, the entire football team started following Christ and spreading the Word. Crazy, right?
Yup. Crazy for sure.
But surely I can’t do that. I mean, that’s the ULTIMATE “do.” It’s the epic mother of “do’s.” It’s like the Norma Jean of hardcore. (Alright, that one might have been a stretch).
The church service was awesome. Of course, my encounter with Dr. Jay, a little elderly lady who came over to tell me how exotic I looked and that I needed to commute two hours to this church because it was where I should be on Sunday mornings and who asked if I had Jesus in my heart, made it even more memorable. But ultimately, it was the genuine passion and excitement emanating from the pastor and its members that inspired me. Everyone was there because they wanted to be. It wasn’t a “cool” church with the latest gear and songs and famous attendees. It was refreshing. It was convicting. It was challenging. And they wanted me to do witness.
I had an epiphany on Friday. Krista sometimes tells me when she has epiphanies but I never fully understand what that was. I now know. At least, I think so. I could be incorrectly using the word. It was a true light bulb and a “wow I never realized that and I’m now so pumped on life” moment. I was reading the responses to a status I had posted on the Soles4Souls Facebook the night before.
The comments below that post made me cry inside. But a good cry. I read things like,
“Find a loving home for every orphan in the world”
“I would protect every child from sexual abuse. That would be my super power.”
“abolish violence”
“Abolish cancer”
The list goes on. Over 30 people shared their dreams and what they would do to change the world, if they had unlimited resources. And then it dawned on me. People are so good. They really are. Yes, I know we are born with a sin nature and are inherently evil. BUT, people are still good. they want to make this world a better place and have good intentions. I just think we all are too scared to do something about a cause.
I’ve worked for so many causes over the years. I’ve worked at breast cancer walks, pro life events, summer ministries, VBS…heck my full time job provides shoes for people who have none. But really….people need to know the Gospel. that’s how they’ll know I’m a Christian and that’s how their lives will be saved.
All that being said, I want to be known for what I do for Christ. i want to make a difference in this world, and have it last an eternity. I’m not really sure how to go about doing this, but I’d like to find out. And I’m inviting you to find out with me.
Now aren’t you glad that was way shorter than my usual word vomit ramblings? =)